Slow

I write this on the first day I came home after dropping my little boy at day care. For the first time, I left him there, and I walked home. For the first time I am doing work (well, right now I’m writing this…) without him running around nearby. I have had to think a…

Parenting and Gender Expectations

Parenting comes with a lot of expectations for everyone involved. This morning I had a bit of an “OMG!” moment around this as I realised that I’d fallen into the trap of doing the “mum job” even though in our case it made absolutely no sense. Our little boy has recently started day care, and…

Go Away, Parenting Guilt

Parenting can be really hard work. It’s worth it, don’t get me wrong. Toddler kisses, playing a game together, helping him stir his own scrambled eggs… I wouldn’t be without these things. But, there’s no time off. Not really. Sure you can go for a coffee or a night away without your child, but it’s…